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Started by: CosmicConfusion, Submitted Mon 15th Feb 2010
Text: Was wanting to get some input from others on this. What are your thoughts on May - December relationships?
Comments:
Thu 3rd Jun 2010
karma says:
B O R R I N G!!! "SLAP!!!"
Karma
Karma
Sun 2nd May 2010
pms says:
may/december? I've seen them work. I know of a woman who married a man well over 20 years older than herself and they have 4 children together. They have been very happily married for over 20 years. I married a man close to my age and have been divorced over 5 years. I guess that it's just a matter of preference.
Sun 28th Feb 2010
Anya says:
I have a friend who's parents were years apart in age. His father was 20 years older than his mother. His mother was in her 30's when she married his father, a first marriage for her and second marriage for him. They were married until my friends father passed on. His mother never remarried. She said there was no other man for her. So in some cases, it is based on love.
Wed 24th Feb 2010
koaala says:
If the relation between may and december does not last, my quess is because of december. I know a lot of people born in december and they are very difficult to be with. None of them marry young and if they finally do, they tend to end up alone. They are really very selfish in nature and that makes them difficult to live with. The best is if two december marry, unbelivable fights.
Tue 23rd Feb 2010
CosmicConfusion says:
All of them that I have ever seen usually do not last more than a few years. Most of them are based on Money. The old adage of married someone with one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. Rarely have I seen where they are based on real love. The last one I knew of was based on her "daddy needs".
Fri 19th Feb 2010
CelestialFury says:
I think it depends greatly on the circumstances and maturity level of both involved. If both people are at the same place in their lives, it can work out. For example, if one party has raised their children and the other wants none. Or if they both have none, want children and are able. Or if they both have none and want none. Finances can be a big part as well. If they are both in the same place financially and have career goals that fit with each others long term plans. I think a lot of it has to do with maturity and compatibility overall. Many of these relationships do not work out, especially if they are established out of immaturity or for unhealthy reasons. Many can and do work out. Age means nothing, its the intentions and goals in the relationship that determine whether or not its successful.
